Step 1: Flirt shamelessly. With everyone.
Step 2: Have awkward conversations with some of the people you flirt with when they want to take it farther, but you do not.
Step 3: Go on blind dates.
Step 4: Fall for the wrong guy, all the while remaining friends with the nice ones.
Step 5: Go home for the summer. Do the same thing. Then come back to school.
Step 6: Repeat.